FOUND ALIVE! UPDATED Missing Person: Transfem Embers Eve missing from Denver since July 19 and needs your help right now

Please note that Embers has blue eyes. Her friends updated the missing person flyer, see below. We are going to try to regularly publish information about missing persons, focusing on the trans and queer community. The safe return of Kailynn Porter inspired us to add this content. Please note that we will use language shared […]

Allegheny County spokesperson Abigail Gardner hurled a suicide taunt at a local radio personality. What does that say about County government?

Last week, the spokesperson for Allegheny County posted a reel on Instagram in which she said “today, Colin Dunlap said we’re all soft, we’re overreacting, our forefathers used to be outside in the smog and smoke a pack on top of it. And to that I say, You’re right. Colin. You should go outside and […]

We need help! Update on latest pet food drive, whistle kits, and Protect Trans Kids projects

The past few months have been a whirlwind as we’ve deftly moved from whistle kits to an urgent need to relocate the pantry, then came a rescue by a generous neighbor, and tried very hard to get Gertie running. In the midst of this frantic pace, our supply of pet food ran low while demand […]

My kale smoothies have paid off sayeth my latest bloodwork

Content Note: nutrition and health minus the judgey lecture, destigmatizing food pantries, and bloodwork Kale. Kale seems to have done the trick. Back in April, I began a daily regimen of a kale smoothie. My cholesterol readings were elevated. I had already been taking a statin, but something else was necessary. My blood pressure was […]

FOUND SAFE Black trans teen Kailynn Porter missing in Pennsylvania since July 11.

UPDATE – Kailynn is back home as of Sunday, July 20, 2026. She is safe and recovering. Updated: Kailynn Porter has been missing since July 11, 2026. A 19 year old Black trans woman, Kailynn Porter, has been missing from her family home in Abington, Montgomery County, Pennsylvania since Saturday, July 11, 2026. Her family […]

2025 Death of Alabama Trans Woman Comes to Light

A 20-year-old trans woman from Mobile, Alabama was killed in a vehicle collision in April 2025. Her name was Haley Brook Terry. According to official reports, her 2004 Ford F150 was struck by a 2005 Kenworth tractor-trailer. Her vehicle then collided with a 2018 Kenworth tractor-trailer. She died at the scene. There is little additional […]

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Five Reasons to Donate to My Living and Legal Expenses

I made a longer video explaining things in detail, but then decided to tighten it up to these five reasons. I really, really need your help.

Now that I am an old woman, I shall eat dinner from a plate that’s purple, with a red dish for bread.

While chatting with a friend recently, I commented how I had always wanted Fiesta ware. Our household dishes are a mishmash of inherited partial sets that we never got around to updating. I’m pretty sure they aren’t actually safe in the microwave or dishwasher, but they’ve been fused together by time and determination. At the […]

Roll the stone away. It’s Independence Day. #Video

Each year, I dust of this song of empowerment that resonates deeply with me. This year, I was hesitant. Martina McBride originally agreed to be part of the Trump Spectacular and then backed out after public pressure. I don’t believe for a minute she didn’t understand the nature of the event. The imagery of rolling […]