Someone stole winter items from a local pet food pantry. Now community help is needed to replace them

This is a disappointing update to share – some unknown person has stolen several items from the Dr. John P. Ruffing VMD Pet Food Pantry. Heated outdoor items critical for feral and homeless cats. We’ve had items donated that were assigned to our participants and caretakers. They were labeled and then they disappeared. No food […]

I used all of my Target gift cards. Peace out.

I remember my first time with Target. It was 1995, a college town in Western Tennessee called Clarksville. I lived across the state line in a much smaller town that barely had a Dollar General. A new friend told me about this store that was Wal-Mart equivalent, but so much more. It was so pretty […]

Guest on This News is so Gay podcast

This week, I was a guest on podcast This News is so Gay with my colleague Mark S. King. We talked about blogging, current events, LGBTQ history, and more.

A Christmas Donation in memory of a special cat

Today Pittsburgh LGBTQ Charities received a letter in the mail. Hello A while ago, Sue Kerr posted on Nextdoor about a cat, I think named Chastity or Charity  (she means Charlotte) that had been cared for by ab older woman (street cat) The cat became ill and your charity spent $600 providing her care & […]

The Franco Harris Sports Museum reminds us that the great ones still guide us

The Heinz History Center announced plans to rename the Western Pennsylvania Sports Museum after Franco Harris. Renowned for his athletic prowess and accomplishments, Franco was also a savvy businessman and generous philanthropist. The only Pittsburgher who could top any list with Franco is Mr. Fred Rogers. How fortunate we are here in Pittsburgh to have […]

Christmas Gifts That Don’t Suck.

No one asked, but here’s my list of gifts that don’t suck. No Starbucks, no Target.

What ‘after the holidays’ really means

Last year was a nice holiday season for me – I felt hopeful, comforted, and valued. This year? Not so much. I thought the holiday in tandem with my blog’s 20th anniversary would create lots to celebrate. I was wrong. A 20 year milestone is not resonating with local media outlets that typically jump for […]

Fort Faulsey Finds Another Lost/Missing Cat or Why You Should Donate to #PghCatFolx

His name is Checkers. He’s been on the lam since escaping his carrier at Humane Animal Rescue (HAR) Northside a few days ago. Marie saw the flyer online and sprang into action. While I posted around the nearby Facebook groups, she headed out with treats and a carrier. Starting at last reported sighting, she “thought […]

Where is the LGBTQ+ content?

Where is the LGBTQ+ content?

Good question. Things have been chaotic this past many weeks. Some things just requiring my time and attention, others wrenching my emotional core to zero. I’m sort of stuck when I try to blog. It happens. I read about things that warrant a blog post, but can’t find anything interesting to say. I’m worried that I’ll […]

If you smile through your fear and sorrow

I went to the dentist last week, abuzz with anxiety. This weirdly ended up okay because I just had one cavity and everything else was fixable. Except one bad tooth that has to be uninstalled. Second chances are always important. The dental cleaning weakened the bad tooth and it really hurt. I called an oral […]