Showing Up for the Big Show

Sunday, my youngest nephew, E, made his theatrical debute in Legally Blonde, JR. He played the villainous law professor.

The evening show curtain opened at 6 PM. I had seated myself with his mom’s, turning off phone alerts. So it was only after the show that I found this text from him. 2 minutes after curtain time.

“Are you here?”

E had a lot of support. His moms stayed for both shows. His older brother brought Pap for the matinee. His maternal aunt Ruth brought her partner and their toddler for the evening.

I was happy to be there, but I had not realized it meant something to him. Enough for him to reach out to me at that moment.

I have a review to post, but this post is just about a simple point – show up. Be the adult you needed in your life.

When a 13-year-old initiates a text chat with you immediately before he’s about to do something BIG … cherish that moment.

And keep showing up.