Tuesday, November 28
by Sue on Tue 28 Nov 2006 11:19 PM EST
Hallelujah! A higher court ruling in Virginia bodes well for a Vermont lesbian whose former partner fled to Virginia rather than allow the former partner to visit their daughter. Its been a long tangled case, but essentially the Virginia courts recognize that Vermont has jurisdiction in the case. Vermont has ordered shared custody. Here's more from Lambda Legal:
by Sue on Tue 28 Nov 2006 11:11 PM EST
The soap which turned Erica Kane's daughter into a lesbian has done it again. All My Children, a long running soap opera on ABC, has plans to introduce daytime television's first transgender character (365gay.com).
The characer is Zarf, a flamboyant rock star who will kiss aforementioned lesbian Bianca Montgomery and then eventually begin transitioning from male to female. How far the storylinen will go depends on fan reaction. Fans have ardently embraced Bianca's story over the past several years, particularly her romance with former love Maggie. However, along the way, AMC had to have Bianca raped and impregnated, murder her rapist and have her child kidnapped for multiple months. Just your typical lesbian stuff. Imagine what they'll do with a transgendered woman?
AMC is working with GLAAD and transgender advisers. Let's see what happens. Unfortunately, Ledcat and I don't get ABC so I may have to rely on internet summaries.
by Sue on Tue 28 Nov 2006 10:59 PM EST
This week a long time dream finally came true. When I was a wee lass, I caught an occasional glimpse of a cool television show called "Family" featuring this tight-knit family that seemed incredibly wonderful. My own family didn't watch the show so its always sort of been this nagging memory, scraps of scenes most of which featured the oh-so-delicious Kristy McNichol. I sort of remembered the mother and the older brother, Willie, but that was about it.
Wait for it ....this past weekend, I bought seasons 1 and 2 of Family on DVD. It is my first DVD purchase, financed in part with a gift card my excellent friends Brenda and Michelle gave me for my birthday. But enough of that ...
So I have watched the first three episodes. Its magical! Kristy is 12 in the show so its a crush of her being the girl I wish I could have been at that age -- she's so cool. Yes, at the ripe old age of 36 I can still say that with total aplomb. Plus, she grows up to be Kristy McNichol. Rumored to be a lesbian and manic-depressive. I have been unable to confirm either since she dropped out of public life to become a hairdresser, teach acting and run a tennis camp.
I have found countless websites listing Kristy encounters. The closest I came to a Kristy encounter was singer-songwriter Autumn Ayers. If Kristy is half as delightful as Autumn, that would be an encounter worth having.
So what's the big deal about a 1970's television show? Everything. It is the best way to revisit your childhood, especially since I have a lingering fear of 1970's teenagers especially those wearing multi-striped shirts and fringed pants. Don't ask me why.
Watching Family reminds me of my fantasy childhood the one where I had a really cool older brother (his name was John in my head) and my mother prepared gourmet meals and cookies (my actual mother rotated 10 recipes most involving some sort of gray item - who eats gray food?). Plus, there was a soundrack and I had my own bathroom. Who wouldn't want to revisit that?
So Kristy McNichol skyrockets back to the top of my list.
Sunday, November 26
by Sue on Sun 26 Nov 2006 08:54 AM EST
Jo Ellen Hovis of Harrisville asks a good question.
Jo Ellen points out that its hard to muster up sympathy for two reverse-heckling victims when men, black and white, make huge profits publicly disrespecting women through their "art."
I presume Jo Ellen is asking for the dialogue about hatespeech be expanded beyond using the "N" word and she's certainly right. Disrespect is a cornerstone of contemporary pop culture. From Justin Timberlake playing the choir-boy "I was duped" card to the horrific lyrics in woman-hating music, it pervades our lives 24/7. When thinking people (especially women) strip these individual artists/performers of responsibility for achieving fame (or infamy) on the backs of our sisters, they are part of the problem. Michael Richards behaved like an ass and deserves the public scorn and shame.
But my own take on Michael Richards is that we are focusing far too much on the individual when we should be talking about why white people with power and privilege (such as Seinfeld residuals will get ya) feel free to cross these boundaries. They know all the backstory on the word, but use it anyway b/c they feel untouchable. I hear that word far too often in my own little circle of white people. Richards is getting some backlash just like Mel Gibson. Both will survive the incidents. Richards appears to have some deeper issues that prevent him from smoothly handling heckling. Gibson appears to have a problem holding his booze. Those things might fell them, but in a land of mighty white men they will both endure their racism, anti-Semitism and misogyny. Fear not, intrepid upward looking, middle-class white boys -- your heroes won't let you down.
On another note .... take a look at an article from Sunday's PG exploring the liberal classroom leanings of Penn State Professor Michael Berube. Good stuff about academic freedom and the organized attempt of the far right to take control of liberal arts classrooms.
Saturday, November 25
by Sue on Sat 25 Nov 2006 08:34 AM EST
That's right ... I served Stove Top stuffing for our Thanksgiving dinner and I make no apologies. :-) I bought an organic free-range turkey, mashed potatoes like there was no tomorrow, and baked the ancient-family recipe Date Nut Pudding from scratch. So I took a few shortcuts in other areas. I think all the organic goodness cancels out the stuffing slur. I should have bought organic stuffing, but I didn't think that quickly on my feet. I'll put my early morning slicing of dates against your onion and celery dicing any day of the week....
Gay turkey celebrations are always interesting. At best, you have the usual two family balance to master. We spent actual Turkey Day with Ledcat's family which was vastly entertaining due to the adorable antics of the 11 month old niece. Especially when she was staring entranced at 97 year old great-grandpa as he napped in his chair. Plus, there was homemade pecan pie. Now that's Thanksgiving. Friday my family came to our abode for dinner. No baby, but I did get to watch my 110 lb dogs act like total fools over my 100 lb grandma -- she's like the Pied Piper of dogs. Today, I want a cheeseburger ....
No matter how crazy and hectic and stuffing-challenged the holiday, I am thankful that between Ledcast and I we have three 90something grandparents still celebrating with us.
Wednesday, November 22
by Sue on Wed 22 Nov 2006 05:54 PM EST
I'm too tired to be very verbose tonight. Here's a good resource from the Human Rights Campaign ....
Buying a cup of coffee? Filling up your gas tank?
Booking a flight for that dream vacation?
Every day, you make decisions about whom to support in corporate America. The Human Rights Campaign Foundation?s Buying for Equality can help you easily support companies that support equality for gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender Americans.
Ratings in Buying for Equality are based on the Human Rights Campaign Foundation?s annual report card, the Corporate Equality Index. A record 138 companies scored 100 percent on this year?s report, which is a significant increase from the 101 companies that earned a perfect score last year. Every day, from enhanced domestic partner benefits to transgender inclusion in non-discrimination policies, we are seeing a revolution in the American workplace.
Last year, more than 250,000 people used Buying for Equality to make informed choices about their purchases. This year, you can do your part to support fair-minded businesses by requesting or downloading Buying for Equality 2007.
by Sue on Wed 22 Nov 2006 05:50 PM EST
Tune in Thursday evening to KDKA AM 1020 when I join Flip Side host John McIntire for a holiday chat. We'll be talking about opportunities for you to help less fortunate people during the holidays. I've got heartbreaking stories. If anyone can see the glimmer of good humor in foster care, its MacYapper.
Sunday, November 19
by Sue on Sun 19 Nov 2006 09:45 AM EST
Long-time gay admirer (nothing wrong with that) and Tribune-Review columnist Mike Seate outed his Aunt Mary in his newspaper column. And her "housemate" Ms. Lillian. They along with long-suffering Uncle Bernie live in Harlem which presumably is not part of the Trib's distribution area. Hopefully, Ms. Lillian doesn't suft the net on her Blackberry.
Paging Robert Traynham! Mike, the homos have been screaming about the hypocricy for years. Check out Mike Roger's blog www.blogactive.com for a long list of "openly gay" Republicans who want to have their cake and eat it too (there is something wrong with that.). I'm glad the heteros are waking up to this.
Yep, they get forced out of the closet by scandal and intrigue. No one political is walking out voluntarily or proudly. And yet there's subtle pressure in the LGBT community to support our "family" who still cling to the love that dares not speak its name mentality. Maybe we should spend a little less time speculating about Melissa Hart's sexual orientation and a little more time talking honestly with our known gay comrades about their reluctance to come out. However, this being Western Pennsylvania where you can't swing a duck without hitting a "pro-life" Democrat, I suspect our good friends will keep their beards firmly in place.
I was going to laugh uproariously at this suggestion from a Trib writer until I realized that Mike's columns are plucking away at the homo-contempt so rampant in this part of the state. Most people have an Aunt Mary and Ms. Lillian in their family. I just happen to be the Aunt Mary with my own Ms. Ledcat. Minus the oblivious husband and Tanqueray gin.
Pennsylvania recognizing National Coming Out Day would be a welcome event. I'm sure the AFA of PA would have a field day with that one and issue at least 13 poorly worded press releases asking people for money and to pray (in that order). That I would enjoy. But it would be more a celebration of being out for those of us who are rather than an opportunity for real dialogue with those in the closet. The perceived risk is too great.
So they'll continue to take advantage of the private parties and social events AND campaign contributions while we continue to take the risks of living out and proud in a less than fully tolerant society. Sounds fair, right?
FYI, National Coming Out Day is October 11.
Saturday, November 18
by Sue on Sat 18 Nov 2006 08:14 AM EST
Put Ambridge on the list of places you don't want to raise your children.
School Board member William Scherfel described the Gay Straight Alliance (GSA) at Ambridge Area High School as a "sex club" and then refused to apologize, referring ot the members as fags.
The Gay Lesbian and Straight Education Network (GLSEN) has been involved in the dispute, noting concern about the disturbing shift in attitudes toward GSA's across the state.
Good grief ... he called GSA members fags. What the hell is wrong with him? He's elected to a position of trust and authority over students and he blatantly violates every iota of both.
As of Wednesday night, Scherfel allegedly apologized. Here's an excerpt from WPXI's report
So he admits he has the capacity to refer to students as fags, but isn't sure that he actually did it. Oh it gets better. Scherfel claims the furor is politically motivated by those who don't appreciate his outspokenness. The school superintendent has opted not to get involved b/c he has no jurisdiction --- apparently he has been robbed of his ability to critique the school board. And the school board itself? Here's their position:
Mean? Is Logan out of his friggin' mind? These are students, kids we are talking about and Scherfel is a grown man. Would he be excused for using a racial slur and have it written off as not meant to be mean? How about referring to female students as cunts? Or disabled students as crippleds or gimps? Would that be okay?
It is a great day for Pennsylvania when local politicians sexualize students, use a slur to describe those students, claim they don't remember using it, and get off scott free b/c they weren't trying to be mean.
I'm sure Darryl Metcale is very proud.
Thursday, November 16
by Sue on Thu 16 Nov 2006 09:57 PM EST
Sunday, November 19, 2006
St. Andrew Lutheran Church
304 Morewood Street Shadyside
From the organizers:
The Transgender Day of Remembrance began in San Francisco in 1999 and has grown to be an event held in many locations around the world. The Transgender Day of Remembrance was set aside to memorialize those who were killed due to anti-transgender hatred or prejudice. Its purpose is to educate others about trans people and to provide support and to the trans people living and working in the area. The ceremony will allow those to come together to remember those who have died, to provide support to each other, and to state that trans related violence and discrimination is unacceptable and must stop.