Friday, June 30
by Sue on Fri 30 Jun 2006 07:34 AM EDT
Celebrate the Night!
Celebrate the Night is a wonderful little event held each October in honor of National Coming Out day. It is a variety show with female entertainers including singers, comedians, more singers, spoken word and usually some more singers. :-) Its actually very nice and has grown to the point of having to move from the Penn Brew House to East Liberty Presbyterian Church. One of those events where you see women that you have never met or seen before, which is always interesting.
They are still accepting applications for talent through July 31. Send them an email at [email protected] or call: 412-655-4444
Just this past week, I realized that Correspondent favorite Eve Goodman had performed last year doing a very fun version of Dancing Queen on her acoustic guitar. I was working at the refreshment table and could not easily see over top of all the thirsty lesbians, so I didn't put two and two together.
CTN tends to be an older crowd so it would be really interesting if some of the performers from the Steel Queer N'At collective got involved. Maybe that's just my generation gap speaking --- I get a little tired of either being one of either the oldest or youngest persons at an event.
by Sue on Fri 30 Jun 2006 07:16 AM EDT
This caught my eye last night while lounging around Tuscany cafe in Southside. (Doesn't that sound like I do cool things on week nights? LOL)
That's a very good question Catherine. And Mr. Potter does a fine job exploring this unique phenomenon. Even I, a lifelong Pittsburgher, did not have a precise understanding. I'm a bit of coward when it comes to pulling in front of people without clear signals that its okay. However:
That's one of the awesome things about the City Paper. You learn things that seem so obvious, but no one at West Mifflin High School ever made a point to teach us. About the 1988 boys basketball team, I learned too much. About Pittsburgh history and topography, not so much.
by Sue on Fri 30 Jun 2006 06:57 AM EDT
The Human Rights Campaign (HRC) has issued the 2005-2006 State of the Workplace report.
Take note of these facts:
Obviously, corporate America recognizes that a LGBT friendly workplace is good business.
This does not bode well for Pennsylvania given our legislative obsession for ramping up anti-gay initiatives. How will we attract the companies so necessary to create jobs for PA families if we are creating a hostile environment? It would be interesting to see the Democrats suddenly become the champions of economic development by creating an environment conducive to attracting private investment. Not gonna happen anytime soon while so many Dems are cowering in fear for losing their seats for even consorting with homosexuals.
Thursday, June 29
by Sue on Thu 29 Jun 2006 07:22 AM EDT
I found this while browsing the Post-Gazette website. Since the writer LA Johnson does A LOT of homosexual themed stories, I am presuming that the Post-Gazette was being clumsy by using "spouses" instead of "partners" I could be wrong but hey -- let's give it a shot anyway .... all you homo spouses who fit this bill, give 'em a call.
Seeking Your Help: Spouses and friends
Thursday, June 15, 2006
Do you and your spouse have mostly couples as friends or do you and your spouse have separate, individual friends? Has it changed over time? What works well for you? What are some of the pitfalls? If you're interested in discussing this topic for a future story, contact L.A. Johnson at [email protected] or 412-263-3903. Be sure to leave your name and day-time phone number.
by Sue on Thu 29 Jun 2006 07:13 AM EDT
Frankly, this issue is so utterly complicated that I often avoid posting about it. The American Episcopal church seems to be falling apart over the ordination of gays and women. And there's all this gray in the middle sort of language that is meant to appease, but only succeeds in angering everyone. I'm confused. Read what the PG and the AP have to say about it.
The Episcopal Church elected a female bishop as their head honcho. The larger Anglican Communion is not pleased. The conservative wing of the Episcopal Church was already angry about both female ordination and the ordination of an openly gay bishop. The Episcopal Church expressed formal regret that the ordination caused turmoil, but not over the decision to ordain this man.
So now the conservatives in the Episcopal Church led by Pittsburgh's very own Bishop Duncan want to break away and form their own diocese who does not answer to the duly elected female head bishop. They want a floating non-geographic diocese led by someone specially appointed by the Archbishop of Canterbury.
Meanwhile progressive Episcopalians here in Pittsburgh are not sure how they fit into this whole schema.
I mean no disrespect because obviously this is a very painful issue for the entire Anglican Communion and the American Episcopal Church in particular. Especially for Episcopalians here in Pittsburgh.
But is it just me or does it seem pretty apparent that there is no real way to keep the church in union? How does a diocese that refuses to ordain woman reconcile itself with a female bishop? If the Episcopal/Anglican strain of homophobia is so rampant that Archbishop Peter Akinola of Nigeria would openly support legislation making homosexuals illegal (not just homosexuality), how do you expect them to accept a gay bishop?
It just seems that this band-aid is being pulled off very slowly and hurting a lot of people who grow ever more divided over these issues. Kind of like the looming divorce which sometimes is much better for everyone, especially the kids.
Just my non-Episcopal observation ...
by Sue on Thu 29 Jun 2006 06:53 AM EDT
Aside from the myriad of letters disputing the PG's review of An Inconvenient Truth and those from the stalwart "Great Americans" defending the Cheesesteak Bigot, a few homosexual themed letters appear ...
First, Martha Perego of Oakland wants to give us homos our very own second class status word or term to describe our unions. Her rational? No one objects to the usage of fraternity or sorority. No one? Huh. Cause I do. Of course, I'm more concerned about the elitism, snobbery, hazing, alcohol poisoning, date raping, exclusivity ...oh and that "frat boy" mentality that pervades adult life like stink on a dog.
Bless her two-tiered little heart, she's willing to permit us the same social and financial benefits. I'm not sure Martha has been reading up on all the latest homo-hitchin' up news b/c what she's describing is called a civil union. And our good friends over at the AFA of PA are onto that approach.
Next up is Bob Poropatich of Stanton Heights writing in response to the Post-Gazette's critique of the Pride Theate Festival. (This is the prancing queens part of the post). Bob takes affront at the PG's implication that the festival is too straight and minus the prancing queens. He compares the lack of drag queens and lisping homos to Fiddler on the Roof:
This is what the Post-Gazette actually said:
I didn't attend the festival so I cannot comment. But the lack of bisexual and transgendered characters is a common motif in most mainstream gay events, organizations, issues, causes, etc. And the further we strive to demonstrate how normal we are (not necessarily a bad thing) the more likely we are to turn our backs on those who don't fit in quite so easily. The Post-Gazette may have picked up on that.
The trick, Bob, is that we get caught up in normalizing our community to a heterosexual ideal. Perhaps we should focus our time, talent and art on how HUMAN we are regardless of where we fall in the alphabet soup acronyms.
Wednesday, June 28
Tuesday, June 27
by Sue on Tue 27 Jun 2006 11:11 AM EDT
Queers: They're What's For Dinner!
What could be more cool than a monthly dinner for queer women? For the past 12 months or so, I've said that every single time I received an invite from organizer Ehrrin and then promptly didn't go. Why? Oh the usual reasons -- work, family, pets, blogging, blah blah blah.
Reasons why this event ain't your typical lesbo potluck ...
1. People mingled. There was still a hint of yinzeritis at the tables, but most notably the hostess for the evening got up and worked her way around the room. And not just to collect the $$. I've been to many a potluck here in da 'burgh where the hostess takes your food and you never see her again because she's catching up with her 16 best friends while you stand in the corner feeling like a complete moron. But I'm not bitter ...
2. Variety was the spice. There were some moms there with very cute babies (shout out to Lola!). There were couples, singletons, older women, younger, women from Shadyside and from Greensburg, even a sweet jezebel. Your basic dyke variety.
3. Let's give them something to talk about. Everything from Ted Nugent (we do NOT have any of his CD's) to PrideFest, from police misconduct to feminist deconstruction of the porn industry, from raising children to Scrabble .... and that was just our table. For a conversation junkie like me, it was basically a giant verbal orgasm. With pita.
4. Food excellence. Gypsy Cafe rocks. Excellent plentiful food. With pita.
5. Continuity. They do this often. Kat has done a groovy job keeping the Lesbian Potluck going at the GLCC. This just builds on that lovely dynamic. Maybe because neither takes place in someone's home? Is it a hospitality issue? I don't know.
To be honest, I know I won't make it monthly just b/c well ... because. But knowing it happens regularly, I'll get myself there semi-frequently. You should, too.
ps: pip pip for the very considerate smokers ... :-)
by Sue on Tue 27 Jun 2006 10:26 AM EDT
h/t to Shakespeare's Sister for these luscious photos ....
And these photos from Pittsburgh's PrideFest
by Sue on Tue 27 Jun 2006 09:55 AM EDT
From the cool chicks at Feministe (including the title which is just perfect) ....
* Women don't really understand Title IX or the variety of ways in which impacts education (not just sports and athletics)
* It is under continuous attack b/c we obviously discriminating against boys
* It hasn't been enforced effectively
* The current administration wants to deep-six it. Surprise, surprise.
The uber-cool Women's Law Project hosted a Title IX seminar a few years ago which your Correspondents attended. It was fascinating for moi as someone who did not really understand it, especially the aspects of gender discrimination underlying anti-bullying programs.
Here's a few tidbits from the WLP website on Title IX things you should know about here in Pennsylvania:
Slippery Rock University - The lawsuit was brought on behalf of twelve student athletes and a coach against Slippery Rock University (SRU). The lawsuit, filed three months after SRU announced it was going to cut three women's varsity sports, claims that SRU provides neither equitable athletic opportunities for its female students nor equitable treatment of female student athletes.
Back in the 80's, I decided to join the track team. The women's team had historically been just a goof off team -- they literally had been doing each other's nails at practice. Then the school decided to put the entire track program under one coach, Mr. Shar. That was my first year. We had the same resources, the same commitment, the same expectations. Only three women lettered, including yours truly and I got it b/c I was the only woman on the entire team who showed up for every practice and every event even though I only scored one point the entire season.
My point, aside from bragging about my glory days - ahem, is that a lot of people criticized the rest of the women's team for being uncommitted, undisciplined, lazy girls who preferred to do nails than develop their talents and skills. No one EVER said a word about all those years that these talented women had been shunted off to the side with a do nothing coach, no support, no equipment, nothing. It was like being set up for failure -- they give us the resources and a few of us succeed which proves that the rest of the girls weren't worth the resource invesment. What a load of crap. In fact, I think the fact that I excelled is due to having the best resources from the get go and not having to undo years of second class citizenship.
We've got a long way to go baby.