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View Article  Call to Action: It is do or die (aka not exist) time folks!

Stay tuned for more details on the Allegheny County Non-Discrimination Ordinance amendment quagmire.

We MUST regain control of the ordinance language.  Right now, it will allow organizations that are funded with your county tax dollars to discriminate against you.  And that's just the beginning.

Put Monday on your calendar.  We need you and everyone you identify as an ally to make a mental note to call Dan Onorato's office on Monday between 9 AM and 4 PM with the following message:

Ask them to remove the language from the proposed Human Relations Ordinance that allows organizations that receive County funding to discriminate.

Dan's number is 412-350-6500.

A simple five minute task folks.  Please spread this around. I promise I will fill in the gory details when I have time but we have less than 48 hours to line up 100 telephone calls for Monday.  Many of you tell me you want to help.  If you can get one person to commit to make this call and you make it yourself, we can cut our work in half. 

I would love to know how many people are calling.  I've heard from about 10 folks so far.  Please email me, facebook me, comment or hit me up on twitter. 

Please retweet this.  Get promises from people to call.  The County ordinance really needs you and this will have major play when it comes to the statewide ordinance. 

View Article  Steel City Stonewall Dems Denounce Eichelberger's Statement

The Steel City Stonewall Democrats wishes to express our profound disappointment in the statement made by Senator John Eichelberger on Friday, June 19, 2009 during his debate on WHYY with Senator Daylin Leach. In that debate Senator Eichelberger made the statement (in reference to a question by Senator Leach about whether Pennsylvania policy regarding same-sex marriage should be about punishing the gay community) that Gay people were not being punished and that ?we are allowing them to exist and do what every American can do??

 

This statement is very hurtful because no minority group needs permission to exist. LGBT community members are important participants in the fabric and culture of Pennsylvania. It is difficult enough to listen to hurtful language about our civil rights but discussions about our right to exist are beyond the pale of civil political discourse and unacceptable from any elected leader.

 

We call upon leaders of both parties to repudiate this statement and request that Senator Eichelberger apologize to the LGBT men, women and children of Pennsylvania.

 

Steel-city Stonewall Democrats is a voice of lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) Democrats in Southwestern Pennsylvania. We endorse and recommend candidates for public office, sponsor events and try to foster progressive change throughout the community.

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View Article  Hey Bellevue! Ways we can do something constructive for the gay agenda

Today is Saturday, June 27 which makes the campaign kick-off for Tom Michalow who is running for Allegheny County Council in district 1 .

Tom has been involved with local politics for 10 years, serving for the past 4 as a borough councilmember for Avalon.  His campaign website is here.  

District Municipality
1 Aleppo
1 Avalon
1 Bellevue
1 Ben Avon
1 Ben Avon Heights
1 Coraopolis
1 Crescent
1 Edgeworth
1 Emsworth
1 Kilbuck
1 Leet
1 Leetsdale
1 Moon
1 Ross
1 Sewickley

Clearly, if you live in these districts you are impacted by this campaign.  Tom is trying to unseat Matt Drozd.  So in the interests of democracy it would behoove you to pay attention to this race. 

However, for those of us outside of District 1, there are some good reasons to pay attention as well.

Drozd dropped his co-sponsorship for the ordinance creating an Allegheny County Human Relations Commission.  Boo.  Drozd did not complete a survey for the Steel City Stonewall Democrats, but Tom has and you can read it in its entirely here.

Tom has been at almost every gay event I've attended, well except the Indigo Girls concert.  He is always last in line to speak because protocol dictates that County Council is last.  Yet he's fresh, excited and very cool about listening to 100 other people speak before him.  That alone gets points in my book.  Kidding.

When I read his survey, I get a little teary eyed. Tom is a teacher and bases much of his stance on what he has seen works best for children.  He grounds himself in what is necessary to build a healthy community for children based on support and openness, not ignorance and fear.  His comments on choice are very moving.  He wants gay-straight alliances in schools because he seems to believe that LGBTQ children thrive when they are valued and accepted -- he even calls out Steel City to do more in the schools. 

There is a critical vote coming up on May 1 in Allegheny County Council. More details in another post, but Toms' vote could make a hell of a lot of difference for minority persons in this County.  Talks of futher County-City consolidation are looming.  I want someone who knows what they are doing, but I also want someone who knows that domestic partner benefits are non-negotiable.  You don't strip people of their rights in the name of progress.

This is a campaign where every day people chipping in $10 could make a difference.  All politics is local they say.  The personal is political they also say.  You can be part of orchestrating actual change on a local level by making a modest donation to Tom's campaign, volunteering to help hit the street to get the word out and/or attending events like today's picnic. 

Start using a hashtag #TomMichalow when you cover his events.

Door knocking is intimidating, but can you give up ONE Saturday morning and show your children a bit of democracy in action? You don't have to know a lot and you don't have to live in the district. Tom runs down the street with you and when you identify a potential person to chat, he does the heavy lifting.  You do the grunt work and you make a difference.  Bring your child along to learn how it happens.

But don't say you can't make a difference.  Maybe you won't be the deciding vote when Pat Toomey tries to topple Arlen Specter, but you can literally be the person who persuades someone to vote for Tom.  You can raise the $100 for those extra few flyers that get distributed.  You can tweet, facebook and blog about this campaign and call your  uncle in Coraopolis - he might be the deciding vote. 

I know a lot of you in these parts of town and I'm running over a list of your political complaints over the years -- about the schools, taxes, racism, etc.  Now is your chance, folks. 

 

View Article  Church tries to exorcize the ga y - who exactly needs to be protected by laws?

This is un-freakin-believable. A church brutalizes a young man (16!) while trying to pray away the gay.  Watch this:

Read some of the CNN interview. 

Patricia McKinney, pastor of the nondenominational church who describes herself as a prophet, said she has even been receiving death threats as a result of the video, but doesn't understand the outrage.

"I believe in deliverance, I believe in anointing, I believe in the power of Jesus," she said in a phone interview with CNN. "I've been threatened already, I've been attacked, and it doesn't make any sense to us. Really, what they're doing, they're putting me out there on the mat."

McKinney says she doesn't refer to the events of the video as an exorcism, but rather a "casting out of unclean spirits." She said this isn't the first time that an event like this has taken place at her church, but it is the first one centered around homosexuality.

McKinney said the boy approached the church and told her he wanted to be a pastor, but was struggling with his sexuality. "We allow [gay people] to come into our church. We just don't allow them to come in and continue to live that lifestyle," she said.

"God made Adam and Eve," she said. "He made a woman to be with a man, and a man to be with a woman."

Robin McHaelen, who worked with the 16-year-old boy at the center of the video in her position as executive director of True Colors Inc., a gay youth advocacy and mentoring program in Connecticut, said the video was taped in March. She would not identify the teen.

McHaelen said she doesn't think the church acted maliciously -- but that's part of her problem with the video.

"None of the people in this video were intending to hurt this kid," she said. "They performed this ritual in an attempt to rid him of feelings that he didn't want to have."

The boy is the fifth teen True Colors is aware of that has undergone an event like the one documented in the video. But unlike the boy, not all the teens approached a church or religious organization.

The event, McHaelen said, reflects a culture and society that doesn't believe a person can be both Christian and gay.

"That's what makes me so sad and so mad," she said.

McHaelen said she talked to the boy since the incident and said he's feeling very conflicted and confused in trying to reconcile who he is with his religion.

"He's 16 and having the feelings that he's having, the relationships he's having, and then [he's] being tormented by 'What if I'm going to go to hell because of what I feel and who I am?'" she said.

My God, in what kind of warped world do we live that grown adults with good intentions even conceive that this could be helpful to a child struggling to come to terms with their identity?  Can you imagine how scarring it would be to have an exorcism of something is intrinsically part of your soul AND when it doesn't work?  Cause it won't work. 

You and I know that the only homosexual demon are the nasty little hypocrites who hide in closets and poke the rest of us with whatever power and privilege their fake-straight identity gives them.

This child was conflicted, not possessed.  He needed support and encouragement.  He also, apparently, needed to be part of a community of faith that doesn't demnonize homosexuals rather than trying to fit into this group of --- I cannot even come up with a term to describe this mindset. 

The video speaks for itself.  I will say the church took their copy down from their website (their website!).  Ha.

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