It has been awhile since I blogged about our favorite advice columnist  Cat Specter.  I've discovered that when she drops the snappy Carrie Bradshaw demeanor and simply offers advice, she's not bad.  When she hauls out the flip little one liners and quips, she comes off as trying too hard (we all know that girl!) and the column goes downhill.  Here's my favorite lines this week ...

Cat's Call: Stilettos don't mean easy. They mean business.

It's good to let personalities play out before sex is added to the mix, but it's also good to test-drive a car before buying it.

Cat's Call: Sexual "wait times" shouldn't be necessary.