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Pgh High School Student Bashes, Blames LGBTQ Families for Her College Rejection

There’s something to be said for bitterness fueled by the rapt audience of the Wall Street Journal. Pittsburgh student at Taylor Allderdice High School Suzy Lee Weiss is angry that she wasn’t accepted into the college of her choice and has chosen to take out her anger on … pretty much anyone who doesn’t fit the 1950′s white heteronormative myth. It is a very tragic letter to read and one can only imagine how a young woman with the initiative to publish in the WSJ failed to create an impressive college resume.WSJ_logo

What on earth is this young woman thinking? It might be one thing to vent among her personal network but to spew such disdain and nasty insults in the pages of a national newspaper takes things from a mere immature tantrum to a planned assault on multiple friends, classmates and neighbors – perhaps even her own family.

Colleges tell you, “Just be yourself.” That is great advice, as long as yourself has nine extracurriculars, six leadership positions, three varsity sports, killer SAT scores and two moms. Then by all means, be yourself! If you work at a local pizza shop and are the slowest person on the cross-country team, consider taking your business elsewhere.

What could I have done differently over the past years?

For starters, had I known two years ago what I know now, I would have gladly worn a headdress to school. Show me to any closet, and I would’ve happily come out of it. “Diversity!” I offer about as much diversity as a saltine cracker. If it were up to me, I would’ve been any of the diversities: Navajo, Pacific Islander, anything. Sen. Elizabeth Warren, I salute you and your 1/32 Cherokee heritage.

Suzy – I am sorry you didn’t get into the college you wanted, but that doesn’t give you license to make nasty shots about other families – you need to take this up with your parents.

Aeriel View of Taylor Allderdice

Aeriel View of Taylor Allderdice

Having two moms is not remotely connected to college admission. In fact, since the federal government doesn’t recognize those moms as married, it wrecks havoc on your college aid paperwork. And since women tend to earn less than men, it also probably cuts into their ability to pay for college. That’s simply a ridiculous assertion.

But to suggest that you’d pretend to be LGBTQ to earn college admission? That’s vicious. I am highly confident that Taylor Allderdice has its fair share of LGBTQ students and how sad that you feel such contempt for them that you would make this comment. What are you thinking? Are you thinking?

Your other comments are equally disgusting – Kinto? Underprivileged chimpanzee of Africa? homeless people’s pets? How much more racist, demeaning and simply nasty can you be?

I read this last night while my partner and I were celebrating the end of a holiday weekend with an ice cream cone. Surrounded by families of all types welcoming spring (albeit at 30 degrees) with assorted kids, pets, careers, backgrounds and  more … it dawned on me that this very ice cream mart was close enough to Taylor Allderdice that Suzy Lee Weiss might actually be there. Perhaps she was the young woman who was petting the English bull dogs or even the girl standing in line behind us chatting about summer plans. She could have been any of those kids – smiling, happy, looking forward to ice cream.

The sad thing for me is that Suzy’s parents probably had to approve publication of this letter – what the hell are they thinking? Or maybe that’s a huge key to understand why Suzy is likely on her way to a full ride at Liberty College or Grove City, right? Sigh.

Oh, wait, did I forget to mention *how* Suzy got her op/ed published in the WSJ? Her sister – Columbia grad – was a features editor there.

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Their parents must be so proud.

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GLSEN Pgh Invites You to Brainstorm! Trivia Night

GLSEN Pgh is working with On The Nose Events to redefine their fundraising and it worked! At least – this event caught my eye amidst the barrage of Facebook notifications I receive daily. So much that I asked GLSEN to tell me more about it. Brainstorm! is a trivia night – the type of event I haven’t participated in since college. These are the folks who came up with “GLSEN and Tinsel” which is one of the best event names I’ve read in recent years. Brainstorm

GLSEN & Brainstorm! is Saturday, March 30th at the Union Project in Highland Park. The doors open at 7 and trivia start at 7:30. RSVP to the Facebook event. Admission is $10 per person and $35 for a team of four. What a great way to support local LGBTQ youth and a terrific organization.

What inspired this concept?

Everyone loves trivia! This past few GLSEN mini-fundraisers have all been very fun and very successful, so we know this one will be as well. With an established crowd and a great venue in place, we were inspired to invent a way to get GLSEN’s core message in on the fun. Adding some GLSEN trivia into the mix along with the general questions and brain teasers seemed like a great idea!

Describe the format

Guests will compete for prizes donated by local businesses. Some of our past donations include free hair cuts, a half case of wine, gift cards, and cash. Games include traditional hosted trivia, written quizzes and brain teasers, and a few put-you-on-the-spot puzzlers to make things fun.

Is the event for adults only? 

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Everyone is welcome at this event.  We just finished hosting our first youth trivia night at the GLCC last Friday and would love to see some of the youth come out for this event as well!

Will you make teams up from attendees?

Guests are free to compete solo, with a partner, come as a team of 4, or make a team up on the fly. When you purchase 4 tickets, you do get a discount! The best part of any trivia night coming up with a team name, so have some ideas ready!

Will alcohol be served? Other refreshments? 

With your admission, you get two drink tickets. Enjoy a non-alcoholic drink, beer, wine, or our signature cocktail, ‘the Brainstorm!’  Drinks will be for sale and light fare will be available. A local caterer, Michelle Mitchell, is providing her delicious cupcakes and hors d’oeuvres.

How would I study up on GLSEN facts? 

The best way to study up on GLSEN facts is to review the 2011 National School Climate Survey.  Don’t worry, there’s anExecutive Summary that you can look through; this is much shorter than the entire report.  I would focus on the disparities as well as the things that are working!  Don’t forget to check out the GLSEN Pittsburgh & GLSEN website too!

What are the three most important facts to know about LGBTQ youth and the education system?

1.  LGBT students who experience high rates of bullying (both verbal and physical) have lower gpa, miss more school, report less feelings of school belonging and are less likely to express interest in pursuing higher education.
2.  99% of LGBT students report being verbally bullied at school.  Verbal bullying consists of phrases like “that’s so gay” as well as derogatory words such as fag or dyke.
3.  GLSEN has found that increases in inclusive curriculum, comprehensive policies, educated teachers and the presence of GSAs in schools results in lower levels of bullying for LGBT students.

What else has GLSEN planned for the spring months? 423_glsen_logo_-_black_background

GLSEN Pittsburgh is gearing up for a very busy spring and summer.  In March we are partnering with Assemble Gallery to host a community outreach event in conjunction with their March exhibit, Idea.  We will also host our first Training of the Trainer at the end of March (21-23) in order to build a cadre of well trained volunteer facilitators to offer professional development trainings to K-12 educators, administrators, staff and students in our service area.

April 19th is Day of Silence and GLSEN Pgh’s PASS program youth are planning something special for Night of Noise.  In May, GLSEN Pgh will host its Annual Meeting, open to the public with more details to come.  Finally, as Pride gets started in Pittsburgh, GLSEN Pgh will co-host this year’s Pittsburgh’s Youth Pride Prom with the GLCC on Saturday June 8th; another youth planned event!

What types of volunteer opportunities do you have?  

GLSEN Pittsburgh offers a unique volunteer experience for those interested in honing their professional skills through a combination of virtual volunteerism and committee work.  As an all volunteer organization we rely on individuals to help with everything from administrative needs to marketing & communications to creation and implementation of youth leadership and school education programming.  Some of our more immediate needs are in the area of fundraising and development along with a volunteer coordinator and committee chairs for our P2P & G&G committees.  We are also actively seeking new board members.  If you have any interest in volunteering with GLSEN Pgh, we encourage you to email us:volunteer@glsenpgh.org

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Donate School Supplies to Support Pittsburgh’s LGBTQ Youth and Families

Most schools are back in session now, but not every student has the supplies they need to succeed. In some cases, their families can’t purchase the items – in other cases, the students are on their own for the most part, particularly LGBTQ youth with little family support. Reports indicate that up to 40% of homeless youth are LGBTQ. The GLCC and related agencies are often one of the only sources of support for these youth. 

The Gay & Lesbian Community Center of Pittsburgh has a flourishing youth outreach project and they are accepting donations of school supplies on an ongoing basis to support youth with their school needs.

A list of items that can be donated:

Folders 
3 ring binders 
Scissors
Construction paper
Glue
Glue sticks
Pens
Pencils
Pencil sharpeners
Spiral notebooks
College ruled lined paper
Crayons
Markers
Colored pencils
Rulers
Erasers
Pencil boxes
Calculators
Craft Materials

Back to school is when we think about these needs, but the reality is that the need is year-round. Young students who come out during the school year may have to relocate and not have access to their supplies. Youth living in shelters or on the streets may not be able to keep their items secure. And parents lose jobs or face other economic hardships year round.

This is a good opportunity to take a look around your home/office and put together a few things you aren’t using – a ruler, an extra roll of tape, pens, a calculator or even Sharpies. You’d be amazed what can be put to better use at the GLCC than in a kitchen junk drawer.

Donations can be dropped off at the GLCC - Monday-Saturday: Noon to 9 PM Sunday 12-6pm.  Call 412.422.0114  for more information.

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