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Jen Asks YOU to Change Your Facebook/Twitter Profiles to Support LGBTQ Equality in Scouting

Jen and her son Cruz are in Texas this week, working very hard for today’s vote to lift (partially) the BSA ban on LGBTQ scouts and leaders. EqualityScoutingBadge

She asked me to ASK you to support them by changing your profile pictures.

Visit the GLAAD website for all the details.

Jen missed her daughter’s 8th grade graduation to advocate for all families, including yours. Those are the sacrifices advocates and activists make every day – and their families make, too – to create a more equal society.

Please take a few moments to show your support.

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Trib Editorial Cartoonist Finalist for Boy Scout Critique

Here’s a little Pittsburgh angle on the Boy Scout story. Tribune Review editorial cartoonist Randy Bish was a finalist in the Golden Quill awards for his work on the Boy Scouts anti-gay stance. Here are two fine examples of his work. 

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I really like the first cartoon – it captures the truth that the Boy Scouts are teaching their young men to discriminate. And that’s a very damaging “life skill” lesson. To me, it gets to the heart of the matter – discriminating against gay scouts or LGBTQ parents and families – it all reinforces the concept of earning a badge for discrimination.

The Scouts are set to vote this week on a partial lifting of the ban, for scouts themselves while still prohibiting adults from participating. This splicing/parsing approach is a painful slap to the LGBTQ adults who have volunteered their time and energy to the organization – I can’t imagine how painful it must be to suggest that once you are an adult, you are not fit to be around these kids. It is also a confusing message for 15 and 16 year olds and 8 year olds, too.

Our hope is that somehow, someone will help the Boy Scouts realize that this policy change is not an acceptable “step in the right direction.”

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Boy Scouts Proposal Will Uphold Discrimination Against LGBTQ Parents & Adults

The Boy Scouts of America are a real piece of work. While all eyes in America are glued to the largest manhunt in recent history to protect our nation from further acts of terror – they decide to slip out the fact that they are going to “let” LGBTQ boys remain in the Scouts, but MAINTAIN the ban on adults.  (Also, athiests still not welcome.)

Jen & her son are still excluded by Boy Scouts

Jen & her son are still excluded by Boy Scouts

From GLAAD:

NEW YORK, April 19, 2013 – GLAAD, the nation’s lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) media advocacy and anti-defamation organization, today responded to the Boy Scouts of America’s (BSA) proposal to maintain its ban on gay and lesbian parents. The proposed language reads in part: “[…] the Boy Scouts of America will maintain the current membership policy for all adult leaders of the Boy Scouts of America […].”

“Yet again, the Boy Scouts of America has failed its members, corporate sponsors, donors and the millions of Americans who agree that the time to end discrimination in Scouting is now,” said Rich Ferraro, Vice President of Communications at GLAAD. “By refusing to consider an end to its ban on gay and lesbian parents, the Boy Scouts have missed an opportunity to exercise leadership and usher the organization back to relevancy. We’re living in a culture where, until every young person and parent have the same opportunity to serve, the Boy Scouts will continue to see a decline in both membership and donations.”

Today, the BSA released proposed language for a revised Membership Standards Resolution, which, if approved, would open Scouting to gay youth but would maintain the organization’s ban on gay and lesbian parents. A body of 1,400 members will vote on whether or not to adopt the policy next month. The Resolution reads in part:

WHEREAS, the Boy Scouts of America will maintain the current membership policy for all adult leaders of the Boy Scouts of America, and

Youth membership in the Boy Scouts of America is open to all youth who meet the specific membership requirements to join the Cub Scout, Boy Scout, Varsity Scout, Sea Scout, and Venturing programs. Membership in any program of the Boy Scouts of America requires the youth member to (a) subscribe to and abide by the values expressed in the Scout Oath and Scout Law, (b) subscribe to and abide by the precepts of the Declaration of Religious Principle (duty to God), and (c) demonstrate behavior that exemplifies the highest level of good conduct and respect for others and is consistent at all times with the values expressed in the Scout Oath and Scout Law. No youth may be denied membership in the Boy Scouts of America on the basis of sexual orientation or preference alone.

Full resolution language is available here.

Contributing blogger and friend to Pittsburgh Jen Tyrrell sent me this statement – she’s a lesbian flying on her own dime, using her own paid time off to support a GLAAD event on the West Coast – before her flight took-off:

“I am appalled at the Boys Scouts’ announcement,” said Ohio mom Jennifer Tyrrell, who was ousted as leader of her son’s Cub Scouts pack in April 2012 because she’s gay.  ”The fact that they are still telling children their parents aren’t good enough is heartbreaking to me. How many times do families like mine have to be rejected by this organization? The release of this information at the same time our fellow Americans in Boston are suffering so much is nothing short of despicable. In a time, when we as a country need to stand up and show solidarity, compassion, and love for all, the BSA is continuing to divide the country with their discriminatory policy.”

As a social worker, an LGBTQ adult, a former Girl Scout and a citizen of this nation – I AM APPALLED, TOO!

Take ACTION – Sign this petition to the Laurel Highlands Scouting Leaders which includes Southwestern PA.

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The Week in LGBTQA – March 17, 2013

St. Patrick’s Day edition.

First, let me wish my younger brother Jim a happy birthday. He’s 41 – 17 months younger than me. In my head he’s still 8. LOL. This Week

One of most significant stories this past week involved a conversation about how we prevent rape. Gun proponents argue that women need guns to shoot their rapists. Advocates argue that as most rapes takes place with someone the victim knows and who also has access to that very gun, it is not helpful at all. Zerlina Maxwell went onto the Sean Hannity show and said that we need to teach men not to rape – period. After enduring rape and death threats among much awful cyberabuse, Maxwell continued to stick with her message and provide five suggestions on how to do this.

Reducing violence against women is a very critical issue for the LGBTQ community. A sexually violent rape culture hurts all of us.

This piece from BuzzFeed drew a lot of interest on my Twitter account – knowing a gay person more than doubles support for marriage equality. During this week, US Republican Senator Rob Portman revealed that he now supports marriage equality, a change of heart he attributes to his son’s coming out. Portman has been lauded and criticized for the politics of individuality. I think that’s fair but shortsighted. Portman is the only Republican in the Senate to support marriage equality. He doesn’t need a ticker tape parade, but a journey of a thousand miles begins with one step, right? The real takeaway is our decisions to live authentic lives knowing that the welfare of the entire community can depend upon it.

Another very popular tweet was linked to a story about 10 bisexual women of color.

NOM publicly described Supreme Court Chief Justice John Roberts’ adoption of his kids as the “second best” way to be a family. Oh my.

In poverty new, Pennsylvania wage earners are not bringing home enough to pay average rents. This coupled with the lack of housing discrimination protections for LGBTQ folks is deeply troubling.

A health club in Columbus, Ohio has been fined for discrimination against a transwomen employee.

An 11 year old boy resigned from Boy Scouts over their failure to lift the ban on LGBTQ scouts and leaders. His letter to the editor explaining his decision is very powerful.

A Dutch lesbian couple has had to go into hiding with their 11 year old foster son who is of Turkish ancestry after his birth family insists his placement violates Turkish law.

Finally, this letter written by a father to assure his son that coming out was okay has made the rounds (and brought the tears.)

Courtesy of FCKH8

Courtesy of FCKH8

 

 

 

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