Thursday, December 23
by Sue on Thu 23 Dec 2010 02:59 PM EST
Like roaches crawling out of the woodwork, social conservative Republicans are back to defend marriage against the ever-looming threat of homosexuality. See this memo from PA Representative (and would be Lt. Governor) Darryl Metcalfe whose neck of crazy-town includes Western PA. Seriously, this is a problem
Looks like we'll have another Blog for Equality Pittsburgh this year. Sigh. I had hoped our destruction of the military would be a distraction, but there's no stopping the vigilant defenders of sactity and all that ...
by Sue on Thu 23 Dec 2010 09:35 AM EST
by Sue on Thu 23 Dec 2010 09:13 AM EST
Oh, for crying out loud. Now the Pope is concerned about the lives of men who pay for sex with men who may be HIV+.
by Sue on Thu 23 Dec 2010 09:09 AM EST
The Tribune Review does not disappoint with this op/ed piece from Pat Buchanan. Here's a sample ...
That's the best line. I cringed for the good Catholics I know everywhere. The rest of the piece his the usual low notes. Sheesh.
Wednesday, December 22
by Sue on Wed 22 Dec 2010 09:04 AM EST
Has anyone caught local coverage, not simply reprints from national media sources?
by Sue on Wed 22 Dec 2010 08:57 AM EST
Take a look at who is included in those tweeting this historic day. Read the victory intertwined with the "miles to go before we sleep" commentary. So much room for cooperative work without squashing opposing views.
Tuesday, December 21
by Sue on Tue 21 Dec 2010 08:36 PM EST
NYC is planning major cuts to funding for homeless youth programs. Great.
Here's some insight into Lt. Dan Choi's status in the LGBT community with the repeal of DADT.
More insight from the Tribune Review on the repeal of DADT. It is a New York piece. Still waiting for local insight.
There isn't a lot of local coverage.
by Sue on Tue 21 Dec 2010 11:13 AM EST
Great work project, but I missed out on the denouement because of illness. I brought it on myself by not setting better boundaries, but I'm more than a little angry and hurt. That's part of life and part of the human connection that binds gay folks with straight folks -- we feel things, we ache, we celebrate, we love, we mourn.
This past month, the wife of Ledcat's brother made it clear that I am not her sister-in-law. Ouch. Eight Christmases and I'm just extended family. Treated politely, but not preferentially. Sigh. That really hurts. Two other former friends really dropped the ball, too. Timing, as they say, is everything.
I am very anti-Christmas this year. The project consumed my life for 5 weeks and now I'm ready to move on to debriefing and planning for next year. That excites me. Stocking stuffers do not. I used to really like that, but now I'm just hoping to find a take out turkey dinner from Boston Market on xmas eve so I can enjoy the best part of the holiday - food. :-)
I realize I didn't adopt anyone. I wanted to not play favorites and knew I would go overboard so I held back. Maybe that was a mistake.
Anyway, the good news is that I'm looking forward to January!
Saturday, December 18
by Sue on Sat 18 Dec 2010 08:42 PM EST
I have to make some sort of comment on this historic day. Today, the Senate voted to approve a stand alone bill that repeals the Don't Ask, Don't Tell policy. President Obama has promised to sign this week.
This is a significant piece of civil and equal rights advancement for the LGBTQ community. Ledcat says that the importance lies in the military culture which is more conservative than the general population. The integration of openly LGBTQ persons into the military is a big stepping off point for the attainment of other civil rights. It is a significant litmus test for continuing culture shifts.
She wrote a paper in law school on this very topic in 1990 so it is also the fulfillment of something she has followed for years.
I don't profess to know how LGBTQ military feel tonight. I have had contact with advocates and activists who have been shedding tears. And I've been pondering what to say myself. There's a lot to be said. Thanks to those who drove this, appreciation for individuals like Senator Webb from VA who opened their minds and changed their votes, thanks for the strengthening of our defense and the safety of my brothers and sisters in the military.
There are political lessons that strike close to home - Pat Toomey's support of repeal, WV Senator Manchin's lack of support.
There's a lot to understand, my friends. Gay folks can't come out tomorrow. It has to be signed into law and an implementation timeframe identified. There will be backlash. Complications will emerge regarding spousal benefits and so forth.
But, it is a good night to be gay in America.