How BUTCH of you Miss Anonymous. You ASS/U/ME my age to be a negative, stereotype me, ass/u/me that I can sing (I can't) and have such a queenie dog as a yorkie. You are no better than the Dobsons of the world. You assume that you know something that you haven't ever experienced in your life. It's people like you that would make a GREAT sissy in prison -- even for us aging misogynist queens from central casting. So make sure that the police don't drag you downtown and throw you in a jail cell with a MAN.