I too was Catholic. Went to RC school for 10 years. Lots of basketball, CYO, etc. My family (mom, dad, sisters, etc.) is still very RC -- except for my wife and kids and me. We're UUs now. I've got a good home there. So, I can sorta understand a good deal with where you are and where you've come from. And, with that -- I say little else. Stay put as you wish by all means. Don't count on me to do any conversions nor toss stones. Sorry about the laundry. And that other stuff -- it was hard to understand. No big deal.